You do not have to become a “Bridezilla”, part 2

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As I mentioned on my first article about “Bridezilla’s”, brides just reach this extent because they are really, really stressed, and this is so normal.
But at what extent does she become this bitter, angry, outburst, screaming bride?, someone totally different before the wedding plans began?. This is a question which has everyone moving heads back and forth.

Why does it become a drama?, why does it become a dilemma?, is the true definition of “Bridezilla” the one we see in the tv show “Bridezilla”, on WE tv? Or is it a little less?. Not all brides are zillas, and this is one reason I am against the word at its all. Moments of anger, stress, confussions, will become part of any event planning, (trust me…as a wedding planner you see a side of me it may seem intimidating but at the end you see what you pay me for),.

I will find myself constantly writing about brides, because this is an issue you see over and over, some are sweet, some are understanding, some are just plain rude, but look at them all, deep down these brides are just nervous, excited and eager to walk that ile and say “I do”.

While searching around as to what does the word “bridezilla” really means I found this quite interesting meaning, bridezilla comes from dificult bride, combined with godzilla, ok as always this is the same definition I am seeing everywhere. I have read brides say how they are not happy with the constant labeling of this word.

Not because a bride cries, flips out, becomes stress, worries or even become anxious is a bridezilla, and I can bet on anything many brides to be agree with me on this one. Brides are also consern this word is thrown around a lot to describe them but it does not mean its accurate.

Bridezilla or not, I love brides, they look beautiful, they shine, they are truly blessed to marry the man of their dreams.

I will go ahead and keep researching information as to what and why will a bride change to such a drastic emotion, understanding she is overly nervous and really wants everything for her wedding to be perfect, and hey…who ever said their is not a groomzilla out there, guys are normal too and they too are organized as well.

You bride reading this…what is the limit where a bride shall be labeled “bridezilla?”

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My meeting with new florist was great!!

Yeah, I know I had promised an update sooner and here I am a week later posting about my meeting with the florist, but as a wedding planner, event, designer, etc, etc I was really caught up with June bride mock tables, purchasing my business liability insurance, which I finally did,…yaay.., and other busy day to day schedule.
Well the florist was such a wonderful person, we talked and talked for almost over three hours, yikes..well I speak for myself when I say, “I can really talk”, lol. We had a wonderful conversation about flowers, venues, brides, websites and even made some jokes which was really nice because it really helped breaking the ice, let me say I loved her flower shop, oh my God!! I wanted to sit and just prettend it was my home,lol. She had beautiful displays around the shop, and gave me the opportunity to take some pictures which I will share in a bit. She asked some questions about my business and I asked her questions about her business and we even exchanged business cards. It was really nice to see that she requested I bring her some promotional items to share for her clients, wow. This is something on my to-do list for tomorrow, right now I am working on 21 center pieces for June bride.

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This is one of the shops display, I fell inlove with the colors, and they way they just let open the drawers with lilac crystals. Doesnt it look eye catching?

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Now look at this display, breathless..it even looks like a magazine picture, this is art, I say its not what you classify yourself, its the art behind your work that is really the first impression.

This is another display created by using a street flower cart, now this is so adorable, like I said her flower shop says it all.

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You know what caught my attention in this wall display?, the green…my livingroom walls has two green ones and it really impressed me to see how you can organize a entire wall the same color, and not look dull, the touch is in what items and supplies you coordinate with.

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Ahhh yes, just a simple wooden reading or computer desk filled with flowers, this is my kind of decoration,… I loved it!!

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Another beautiful wall display, using lilac and some baby blue, who ever said these colors would not blend, it is tremendously beautiful.

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This was my favorite, lol yeah because I just cant get enough when it comes to aromatic candles.

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This was table placed by the entrance window, with such beauty.

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This beautiful center piece she shared while working, when I had the meeting with her, at that moment they were in the process of creating 121 of these center pieces.

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Another beautiful display, also in green which really caught my eye.

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God this looks awesome, lol…. I know im drooling here for beauty.. I just love vintage looking decoration, I have a huge weakness for it.

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This is part of the 121 center pieces she was actually working on, arent they artistic?

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The third and final piece she was working on.

This was a wonderful experience I had, you see, not all vendors are willing to have a moment to really interact with wedding planners. If you really want to network with another vendor, take the time to really know them, their work and really understand what this work really means to them. I had such a wonderful time, I told her I will add her business to my vendors prefferd list.

Well, well now its time for me to continue my center piece mount, still have a few to go.

Have a wonderful day today!!

Meeting with Florist

Well today will be pretty exciting for me, I have a meeting with a Florist, who wants to partner up with Elite. He will be sharing his work with me today and we will have business talk. I am really looking foward to this because it is always a pleasure to meet and greet new vendors to my list.

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I love flowers, so not only my brides would be enjoying this new florist, but so will I. I will be also visiting my new Insurance company, I will be getting a business liability insurance to make sure everyone is safe on the long run. This makes much more sence because my office are on thw third floor, although there is elevator, their are stairs as well,so we need to be protected both ways. Sometimes I just want to sit and blog about anything and everything I see and do, because I believe our life is an open book to new ideas, new and exciting experiences, there is miracles around is at all times, we are just so busy with daily life routines which takes our view and concentration. Anyways,… I will be posting pictures of the florist work and see what happens from there, hopefully I like him so much, I would just come back to my office and add him to my vendors list. 🙂 have a wonderful day, it sure is a beautiful one here so far.

New office, new changes

I have been running around all week, well better said for the past five months looking for the perfect office space ro work my Wedding & Event planning business. I have been on and off from at least one office besides home, each minute my supplies grow amd I desperatly needed space.
I mean having customers go to ypur home office feels uncomfortable. But I am happy to say that I have finally found an office who has made the best of my life, not only one but two offices, which one will be transformed into a beautiful, warm, invitting wedding waiting room. I will take pictures of before and after. I will be redecorating it myself. Looking forward to my new plans and a new beginning for “Elite Wedding & Event Planning”

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What a beauty!!

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Who ever said you can’t have your own creation. This is something that will have your guests talking about. I not only love the color but the organized way it has been put together. Enjoy because I am enjoying as well. I have shared,.pinned and even use as a wallpaper.